Blowjob

Male here! I love the recent post on giving blowjobs because women who read it might not feel as pressured or scared of doing something that can be a wonderful thing for couples.

I just wanted to add some tips.

First and obvious, all guys are different. Some will want more mouth and some more hand. It just depends on the dude. Whatever makes him moan more, just go with that. In my case, mouth was queen. So these next tips will be tailored to guys who like more mouth.

Second, yes you can make a guy cum without choking or gaggling it but the more mouth you can give the better. He will reach an orgasm a lot faster and then you’re done. Sometimes as fast at 2-5 minutes. Quick and easy.

Third, Sometimes hand jobs and sex don’t feel better for guys. It depends on the couple. My ex and I were completely incompatible size wise and it made for some awful sex for both. Oral sex was one way we both could please each other to our satisfaction. Her mouth could do things her vagina couldn’t and my tongue could do things my penis couldn’t. One technique she had that would make me cum extremely fast was this:

She would close the back of her throat tight so my penis couldn’t choke/gag her. She would then give me her entire mouth. She would bump the back of her flexed throat on the tip of my penis while sucking hard and fast. At the same time, she would apply a downward pressure motion with one of her hands on the shaft and massage my balls with the other. Best blow jobs I’ve ever had! I’ll even say it was better than sex I’ve had with other girls that have vaginas more compatible with my penis. The nice thing about this technique was she didn’t have to choke for it and applying that pressure on the tip of the penis stimulated it a lot faster than normal. If her jaw ever got tired, sometimes I could feel her little teeth gently rubbing the tip which sometimes felt VERY good. And if her jaw became too tired  she would just return to using her hands. In the end though, she would always finish me with her mouth technique and that ultimately is what felt the best!!!

Fourth, teasing feels nice to a certain limit. Every guy’s limit will differ and if you exceed that patience he might get sexually frustrated/angry/annoyed. No guy will admit it because they don’t want you to stop giving them blow jobs by sounding negative about your technique. A good rule of thumb is if you’re teasing him more than 30-40 seconds, your taking way too long to give him the stimulation he needs (stroking/sucking/etc). Also, while you’re teasing with your tongue, make sure you apply a downward pressure to the shaft. Even if your hand isn’t moving it will help significantly stimulate the tip while you’re in teasing mode. Vice versa, too much stimulation can start to be uncomfortable. After two to three minutes, if he hasn’t cum then it might be time for a teasing break. Doing this in cycles will ultimately drive him crazy and lead you to success. And yes I said to two to three minutes. Think about how long it might take him to reach orgasm during sex and sometimes that might be how long it takes him reach orgasm via blowjob. Or like it my case, if your technique is really good it can cause him to reach orgasm a lot quicker than sex.

Fifth, teeth generally don’t feel good but sometimes it can help stimulate in small doses. I understand it’s draining to keep your mouth open for an extended period of time without feeling like you’re at the dentist. If you can, try to muscle threw it. Otherwise, return to using your hand/vagina/etc to stimulate him if you notice he isn’t feeling it. Depending on the guy, they could loose steam as fast as they built it when something goes wrong. And if they’ve lost steam, you need to take a break and do some foreplay. Otherwise you’ll be pushing rope.

God speed ladies/gents!

Submitted by Anonymous

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